Last year I gave a tarot reading where manifesting desires came up; specifically, how easy it was for the client's family to score tickets and freebies to see their favourite bands playing. When it came to other wants, like a business taking off, the process was much slower. The complexity of a business is just bigger, but why was it that anything musical took off quickly?
Why are some things easier to manifest?
The message that came through was about the bliss we feel when we are at a concert, or even listening to music that we love. It is not a stepping stone to anything else, you just want to enjoy the moment. It is not a fancy purse or a car that will do X, Y or Z for you. Not that there is anything wrong with wanting a beautiful bag or a piece of jewellery that we genuinely love ;-)
If we want to manifest other things with the same level of ease, we have to connect with the end goal and not the vehicle that may get us there. On a side note, this reminds me of my marketing days, but don’t get me started on that. (Treat yourself to things and experiences that you genuinely need and love; don’t fall for misdirection). We can manifest our Heart's desires quicker than the Ego's wants because the Ego wants security and focuses on things that appear to offer security, whereas the Heart will sense joy and taps into it naturally.
Allowing vs Forcing Manifestations
A few years ago, I signed up for my friend Cami’s spiritual psychology class. We looked at manifesting and resonance, as well as psychology. She explained that the Universe responds to how we feel about situations. When we see something and think "oh I like that!" the Universe takes note. The more often we respond with appreciation, the clearer our signal. Every time we respond positively to an idea, we tell the Universe to bring it closer to us. Until poof!!! It comes about in the best way. I've had a few gifts come along this way, literal things I saw in a shop and then a kind and warm person gave it to me a few weeks later…which honestly, made me feel awkward at first. But it’s also about learning to receive with gratitude.
To recap, the key is to respond with a joyful "I love that!" when we come across anything that we'd like to have in our lives. Whether it is a new purse, a new relationship, a promotion at work, a solid group of friends or even a house on a specific street. This is how I found my apartment in Notting Hill years ago - felt it in my Heart Chakra and I wound up on the most beautiful street. And at a decent rent.
Why Envy Has The Opposite Effect
If instead, we respond with envy to the world around us, the theory is that unhappy and slightly bitter feeling sends mixed signals to the Universe. The Universe isn't a psychologist who thinks "she responds with irritation but deep down, wants it, so I'll give it to her anyway." Instead, the Universe registers envy as an unhappy feeling that arises in response to X, Y or Z. To help us, it pushes the object away from us so that we can be at peace. Not helpful at all is it???
All emotions are valid, but some lead to self sabotage. Envy is a tricky one because it shows us what we think we can’t have (in some cases, it might be true). It also repels the object of our desires. The Universe can move us into a position where we can satisfy our needs and wants for growth, love and abundance - but we have to give it time and space to do so, on its terms. That might mean getting something that looks different, but feels right. Working through envy is key from a soul growth point of view. More on that in the future, but it’s a gateway to your soul’s purpose and uniqueness.
The trick is to heal the source of envy, knowing that we too can shine; all the while feeling joy for others. The more we celebrate others, the better off we are. See here for a post on how to work with our emotions. And honestly, there are times when envy is a valid response to the environment, ignoring that is not helpful either. I am just thinking about how we can do better, with what we have. This has worked for me with little things that brighten my day, and a few that seemed out of reach. This blog post is more magical and hippy leaning. I spend maybe 10% of my time there intentionally, and do self-work and pragmatic things the rest.
Some Musical Inspiration!
My book, Chakra Healing & Magick, looks at tools designed to create a life of love, joy and power. Whenever I sit down to visualize an intended future I will listen to my favorite songs to feel that joy, asking for This or Something Better for my Highest Good, a manifesting phrase from Camila's class. We can also sing; the intention is for your voice to send that vibe out to the world.
With this in mind, here is a link to a live performance by Coldplay. It also brings in a bit of color vibration (yellow) for the Solar Plexus Chakra, the chakra for joy, confidence and personal power =)
With this in mind, here is a link to a live performance by Coldplay. It also brings in a bit of color vibration (yellow) for the Solar Plexus Chakra, the chakra for joy, confidence and personal power =)
One Last Healing Tip!
There are many ways to heal ourselves. I find that the changes we seek come about quicker when we combine energy healing with music. Listen to songs that match your mood - whatever needs healing. My books will get you started. Chakra Healing & Magick includes the healing tools that I use every day. Music and magic in chapter 3.
The secret ingredient: live recordings amplify the effect with the audience's energy. If you speak Spanish, another favorite! Tap into that sense of joy. Their Super Bowl performance, also a fave - with appearances by Beyoncé & Bruno 🍫
Follow the links below for Chakra Healing & Magick! The book goes through the basics of energy healing and intuition, aiming to empower our lives by releasing doubt and limiting beliefs 🌺 Happy manifesting!
Reiki hugs,
Regina Chouza